Monday, June 1, 2015

8 months

Monday, June 1, 2015
Wha-oa! I have an 8 month old!! Here are some funny pictures and interesting facts from the last month!

Probably the best improvement this month is that Connor is starting to fall asleep on his own and sleep through the night. I really tried hard to teach him the more gentle ways (stay in the room, make sure he is really drowsy before putting him down...) but we finally had to let him cry it out. It was sad and hard but now he just fusses for a minute if that, lays down and falls asleep!  It is a miracle! It's also great having the evenings baby free!

Connor now weighs about 17 pounds and is 27 1/4 inches tall! I would say 3/4 of an inch growth in just a month is huge! He is already growing out of his 9 month clothes because they are not long enough. I never thought I would have a relatively tall child.

Trying to eat clover flowers and yes, that is a handful of my hair. Ow!
As you can see avocado is a tricky food. haha. Connor still loves food. As you all know this last month he was diagnosed with Wheat, Rye and Egg allergies. He is also sensitive to dairy, tree nuts (almonds), peanuts, shell fish, oats, bananas, and cinnamon. The last three were not ones tested for but he throws them up every time he or I eats them. On top of that, we also have to avoid foods high in acidity like mangos, pineapple, and tomatoes because they make his reflux worse. This poor kid better out grow most of these!!! It is just too hard to keep up with that kind of diet so I am unfortunately having to put him on formula. Amazingly after months of not taking a bottle he happily ate the whole thing when I gave it to him last week. Tender mercies!
Connor loves it when you blow on his belly. He is so ticklish and I love it! Bed times are better now. He doesn't get so cranky and now that we are letting him "cry it out" Logan and I get some time for ourselves in the evenings. I've been using it to catch up on neglected house work and blog :) After bath and everything we sit down and read some books with him on our lap. The last one is The Going to Bed Book and thats when Connor knows it is time to sleep. 
A new funny face. He started doing this a little after his two first bottom teeth came in. 
Connor loves this jacket! He loves the zipper and when I pick him up, he loves to grab the tassels and eat them. 
So this was an interesting achievement at 7 1/2 months old. Connor finally decided to take a pacifier. Any kind. That kid! Usually mom's are starting to take them away around now. Poor Connor has a mean mom though because even though I think he would love to have it all day long, he only gets it at nap time in his bedroom - not even at night because I don't even want to start the pattern of having to go into his room all night every time he looses it. 
It is amazing for his naps! I give it to him as I read one short story, we rock for about 2 minutes and then I lay him down and he finishes putting himself to sleep with no complaint or tears! About 10 minutes later I go back in to take the pacifier out of his mouth or where it fell in the crib. He knows I take it now so he doesn't wake up looking for it. So far this has worked well. Where has this been the last 7 months!? As you can tell we have made HUGE improvements in the sleep front. I finally feel like a normal person and Connor is much happier too! 
This last month we had to say goodbye to our good friends Baby J and Annie. J is about 2 months older than Connor and his birth weight was almost 2 times Connor's. But a few short baby months later, you can see now they are almost the same size! In fact they are almost the exact height, J just weighs a little more. 
Below was our photo reenactment of their first and last meetings. 
We also had another couple over and got a pic of all the kids.
Connor loves being outside! Unfortunately he learned that he can take his hats and sunglasses off so about two milliseconds after taking this pic they were down. 
 Shoulder rides are the best! Connor loves grabbing hair! You can see how much Logan is enjoying it!
   Getting ready for a bath! I just love this little man's baby body! I think it is so adorable! I made that!
Parenting is all about taking lots and lots of naked pictures of your kids so you can embarrass them in when they are older! Connor loves his big boy baths and after I got a slip mat he can sit without any support. My floors are wet every night and I love it!
 
 "Where is my green ring?...FOUND IT!" haha! This is his toy basket. I pull it out and he loves to pull toys out 
 Sweet morning smiles! 
 Getting so curious! I put him down on the floor and then the next second he is off exploring! Still hasn't adventured onto the linoleum without any encouragement but it must taste great because he taste tests it all the time.
He likes to stick his bum in the air with his legs straight out. It is so funny. 
And this is new as of today. I got a box in the mail with diapers and he successfully pulled himself up on it all by himself.  This is a first and now he wants to stand up on everything but because he can't go from a crawl to sit position they have to be low enough so he can reach it. 
A few other random things. He doesn't cry/get scared going down the stairs, at moderately loud noises and children! He is a chatter box again. He babbles in the mornings before I come get him - it is so cute! He wakes up much happier now. He loves the sliding door blinds and window blinds. He is a great car rider - he loves to look out the window! Bouncing is his favorite! He could probably walk better when I hold his hands but he wants to jump instead. We are successfully transitioned out of the swaddle and he likes to sleep on his tummy and side.  

Friday, May 29, 2015

8 Month Photo Shoot

Friday, May 29, 2015
I decided to split up the 8 month info update post and the photo shoot. I'll get the other one up hopefully tomorrow after I get a chance to weigh this chunker!

Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Sunset Walk

Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Monday, May 25, 2015

Sefa-utaki World Heritage Site

Monday, May 25, 2015
There are 18 World Heritage Sites in Japan. 9 of them are in Okinawa. Logan and I have now been to 6 of them. Today we went to the most sacred site of the Ryukyu Kingdom (Okinawa and several smaller islands). It is actually a collection of several alters. It used to be up kept by priestesses and is still visited and worshiped by pilgrims. It is on a beautiful hill outlooking the Pacific Ocean. 
It was about an hour away but Connor did great the whole time! It is great being able to get out more and explore our little island. It was also nice to get out of the house considering our water was off and unusable. (We woke up to no water Sunday morning because a water line had broke, they got it back on eventually but told us it had been contaminated so we couldn't use it unless we boiled it for 3 minutes. Thankfully it was back to normal by Monday evening)

Saturday, May 23, 2015

...these are a few of my favorite things.

Saturday, May 23, 2015
The people who lived in our house before also had kids. You could tell from the blinds that have pen and food boogers all over them. I have been meaning to clean them since we moved in but because you only see the spots up close it hasn't been very high up on my "to do" list until now. So I spent a long time the other day making my blinds gluten free! Thats something I never thought I'd have to say. haha! But I think you can see why...
This last picture makes me laugh so hard! He is either protesting us moving the blinds to one side or remembering all the good times he had laying there playing with them before "the big move". lol. Don't worry buddy, they will be back to normal again tomorrow morning for you to play in again. 

Friday, May 15, 2015

The test results are in...

Friday, May 15, 2015
Connor's doctor called today and he has allergies to wheat, rye and eggs. So I either have to go off of them while I'm breastfeeding or switch him to formula. I want to keep nursing but dairy (for his reflux), wheat and eggs are going to be really hard to do all at the same time. Not sure what is best but I'm determined to help this baby feel better and I'm hoping it leads to more sleep for all of us!

It will be interesting to see if he out grows them (they usually do with eggs by their first birthday) but very likely he will have to at least stay gluten free his whole life. That will change my cooking a lot, as in, possibly forever.

Here's the thing I didn't realize till a bit later. If I do go off of all that it pretty much kills all opportunities to eat out and travel! We have been trying to plan some stuff but I can't if I'm on such a restrictive diet. I can't exactly tell my servers no gluten when they barely speak English or pick out things on a menu when it is mostly in Japanese.  I feel like I'm going to miss out on experiencing Japan and taking advantage of being able to travel around Asia while we are here. 

On the other hand I feel a little selfish if I put him on formula. It is the much easier route but it could be better for him in the long run. I just didn't expect to stop breastfeeding like that. I figured it would be because I wasn't making enough or he out grew it. It seems like I'm finding less and less reasons to keep going other then the fact that Connor loves it so much and I like the bonding time it gives us.  

5/17 UPDATE---
When I prayed about whether to go on a even more restrictive diet or to switch Connor to formula I was surprised I got a very quick answer to put him on formula and get him on a controlled diet so we can start getting his allergies under control. At the same time I felt that my heart also broke. I can barely stand the thought that in a few short weeks I'll never get to nurse him again. I can't even stand it. Even writing now it is making me cry again. 

How can I take away the one thing in his mind that comforts him and shows him how much I love him. How can I explain that what I'm doing is for his own good and he will feel better soon. 

After nearly 16 months my body will no longer be the his sustaining force. We have had a lot of ups and downs with nursing but we were finally in a good routine. We worked so hard to get there! 5-6 times a day I was so lucky to get to hold him close and kiss his finders as he played with my mouth. At night I would nurse him to sleep in my arms and there were no tears. When he woke from his reflux I could always nurse him for a while and sooth his pain. 

Now we have to teach him to sleep without that. So before I take too many nursing a away we are letting him "cry it out" in his crib. I sat by his side for an hour last night patting and loving him before he finally succumbed. I don't know a better time to teach him to sleep on his own. We are finally over being sick and he isn't teething anymore. Logan will be here for another week and half and then gone for a month. I can't do this without him. Tonight is Logan's turn to sit with him and even though I'm not the one sitting next to Connor, I'm crying too. I just want to pick him up and let him nurse but that is the one thing I can't do. 

There is too many things having to change suddenly. We are barely in to it and already I know it is going to be so hard for all of us. These changes are so against my nature. I want to be close and be the one to sooth my baby forever.  I feel like I'm making him grow up too soon! And yes I know babies grow up but weaning him at 8 months was not his choice. Making him fall asleep in his crib by himself was not his choice. Being a parent can be hard sometimes. 

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

Show me your teeth!

Wednesday, May 13, 2015
Get those hands out of there! 
There they are!!
Ok mom! I'm done! 

Monday, May 4, 2015

Baby in the Big Tub

Monday, May 4, 2015
At 7 months we started finally giving Connor baths in the big tub. He wasn't sure he liked it as first but I think he is warming up to it now. It took us about a week to teach him to splash with his hands but now he is very enthusiastic about it!  We don't even have to remind him, he just goes for it! Every once in awhile he gets himself really good in the face and coughs or looks really confused. It's pretty funny. All the time he gets us and the whole bathroom wet and I wouldn't change a thing.
While I was trying to get a video to show you all how he splashes now he did this for the first time!

Sunday, May 3, 2015

Chill Weekend

Sunday, May 3, 2015
Friday afternoon I went to a furniture store for baskets and then the 100 yen (dollar) store. I love how baby friendly Japan is.